(Bihar Times)  Imagine your child dead or lost.  The shock, horror, the feeling of helplessness and grief.   
   Grief is a reaction to the absence  of something or someone who caused happiness, comfort. The continued absence of  that person or thing can lead to stress. In the context of bereavement, this  stress is termed grief. Charles Darwin, the great scientist, wrote that animals  share our emotions including grief.  
   People like to believe that animals  have no sense of their mortality and are unable to comprehend the concept of  death. This allows us not to feel remorse when we eat them, hunt them, separate  their families, massacre thousands in the name of preventing pandemics, keep  them in cages or kill them in slaughterhouses.   
   Grief is something that those with  a memory feel.  An animal’s memory is  like yours. If you an animal can love or fear, he/she can certainly grieve for  the same reasons - following the death of an owner, relative or friend. 
   How do animals express it ? Many  vocalize pain or distress and show changes in their behaviour. Some, like  elephants, even shed tears. When my dog Milly’s puppy was killed in front of  her by another dog she howled and ran round the house for 3 days, refusing to  eat. It took months to get her to interact with us. 
   The most obvious example of grief  in animals has been observed in elephants. If an elephant dies, the troupes who  knew her/him will go to where the body is and touch or pass around the bones.  They will stay in the area for days to mourn returning to the grave time and  time again. Even the calves in the herd will limit their play to show the same  respect as adults.  
   Kenyan elephant expert, Joyce Poole  describes the griefstricken expressions in their eyes, the way they carry their  ears, their bodies. They pause for several minutes when walking past a place  where a companion died. They stand guard over a stillborn baby for days with  their head and ears hung down. Young elephants who witness the death of their  mothers often wake up screaming. In one incident, a female having lost a calf  stayed next to the corpse for several days and left reluctantly with a herd and  fifty kilometers away, turned back and went back to her calf. 
   In Lucknow Zoo Damini befriended a  younger elephant called Champakali. who was brought in pregnant from Dudhwa National    Park. The two elephants became inseparable. When  Champakali died in child birth, Damini stopped eating. She cried over her  friend's body, and then stood in her enclosure for days. Over the next month  she nibbled her food until she collapsed. She lay still, crying, and gradually  stopped drinking water. Vets tried to save her by pumping gallons of glucose  and vitamins into her veins but could not save her. “In the face of Damini's  intense grief, all our treatment failed," said Dr Utkarsh Shukla, the zoo  vet.  
    
    When the elephant Kaveri died in Chandigarh’s Chhatbir  Zoo, a trumpeting of other elephants filled the air. Defying their mahouts, the  elephants repeatedly turned and moved towards Kaveri’s shed whenever taken for  a walk.  
    
    The story of Hoku and Kiko, a pair  of Pacific spotted dolphins at Sea Life Park is well known. Kiko died of a  kidney ailment. Hoku swam for days with both eyes shut. The keepers gave him a  young spotted dolphin female named Lei, who   immediately liked Hoku. Hoku was polite; he allowed her to swim with  him, he was not aggressive and he even began to look around again. But he kept  one eye shut on whichever side Lei was swimming on. 
   When a dolphin passes away, the  others of the group mourn by stopping eating and swim around with loud  whistles. If a child dies, the grief of the mother dolphin is intense. She  weaves round the body, propping it up to the surface and trying to revive it  for hours.  Dolphins keep the bodies of  their dead afloat by supporting them with their own until all members of the  group have shared in the grieving process.  
   A French documentary film showed a  crocodile killing a female hippo and dragging it onto a sand dune. Soon after,  hippos are seen coming out of the river to lick the body.  They lie down in a circle around the cow as  if it's a fallen friend, and stay there for hours before wading back into the  water . 
    Every dog owner knows that they  mourn the death of loved ones - companion or master. The American Society for  the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals conducted a project entitled Companion  Animal Mourning .The study found that 36% percent of dogs ate less after the  death of a  companion; 11% stopped eating  completely; 63% of dogs vocalized more than normal or became quieter. The study  found that dogs changed their sleep patterns and location of their sleep. 55%  became more affectionate and clingy with their caregivers. And 66% exhibited  four or more behavioral changes after their loss. 
   If a cat loses a friend, they will  stop eating and playing for some time and stay near the scent of the lost  one.  Mother cats whose kittens are taken  away look for them for many days, pacing and crying out. Larry Lachman, author  of "Cats on the Counter”, says grieving in cats may last up to three  years, with the most visible signs in the first year. They include loss of  appetite or overeating, chronic meowing or howling, searching for the person or  animal, spray-marking and self- mutilation. A sudden refusal to use the litter  box and attacking owners or family members can also signal bereavement.  Sometimes cats wait at the window, or sit on a gate-post, waiting for the  absent one to return. Some owners have even noticed their surviving cats taking  on behaviour patterns of the missing cat. Some fast and became critically ill.  Post mortems show no sign of disease except for that caused by failure to eat.  Some have repeated nightmares after the death of their owner in the cat's  presence waking whimpering and fearful for months until the trauma fades. 
   Apes and monkeys display the  characteristic behaviour we associate with grief. Grieving animals withdraw  from their group, sit in one place and stare into space as if paralyzed. They  remain unresponsive to attempts by others to interact or console them. They may  stop eating, and become obsessed with the dead individual. Some even try to  revive the corpse or carry it around until it decomposes.  
    
    Jane Goodall, the world famous  primatologist narrates the incident of an eight year-old male chimpanzee named  Flint in Gombe Stream National Park in Tanzania, who when his mother died, went  into deep grief. Flint  stopped eating, stopped traveling with the troop. He died shortly where his  mother had died.  
    
    Koko, the gorilla at the Gorilla  Foundation in Northern California was taught sign  language and has mastered more than 1,000 signs and English words.  At one point she cried, describing the moment  she was taken from the forest. She said, "Men came ... big bang ... mother  dead.",describing the poachers shooting her mother and taking her away.  
   Her keepers gave her a kitten whom  she mothered. The kitten died and the keeper had to tell her. As soon as he  entered her cage, she asked where the kitten was. The keeper signed that it had  died and the gorilla turned away, cuddled herself, dropped her eyes to the  floor and wailed loudly in a corner.   
   Chimpanzees show great emotion upon  the death of one of their group, screaming, charging, and whimpering. A mother  will carry for days the limp body of an infant who has died till it becomes a  dessicated strip of fur. Only then will she leave it. 
   Primate babies born in research  labs are snatched from their mothers within three days of birth—leaving the  babies depressed and unable to develop normal relationships throughout their  lives. Laboratory animal caretaker Nancy Megna writes about what they witnessed  at the Yerkes Primate Research   Center: “The mother emits  either lost calls, waiting in vain for a response from her stolen baby, or she  makes a mourning type of crying . She does this constantly, sometimes sitting  far from the group at the edge of the compound, sometimes sitting near the door  to her quarters. If an employee walks by, the mother will often follow along  the whole distance of the fence of her enclosure, looking directly at the  employee as she emits her lost call. Babies, too, make plaintive calls, in  hopes of being reunited with their mother. ” Cows behave the same way when  their babies are taken for slaughter. 
   From horses and rabbits to deer,  animals mourn the loss of another. Even rats who play together care for each  other and grieve , protecting the body of a loved one that has passed away.  
   In most animals, symptoms of  grieving include  diminished interest and  energy , absence of play , listlessness , reduced social interactions , increased  daytime sleeping , weight loss/loss of interest in food ,coarsening of fur and  loss of sparkle in eyes . Sometimes they die soon after the loss of a  companion. 
   Sharon Crowell-Davis, an animal  behaviorist at the University   of Georgia, has  scientifically proven that animals have emotions just like us, by the use of  PET [positron emission tomography] scans. This instrument provides an  evaluation of mental states based on brain changes in response to specific  stimuli. It was noted that both humans and animals react to a certain stimuli  in a similar way.   "When animals  are recorded showing the same patterns of brain activity and the same brain  chemical changes that correspond to a particular human emotion or mood state,  it would not be logical for us to assume that they are not experiencing similar  feelings," Crowell-Davis says.  
   Next time you eat a lamb or a calf,  you leave a mother who is crying her heart out. 
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